tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38885951.post2490392146749618590..comments2023-10-22T09:31:35.386-05:00Comments on Ask Aunt Amy: An unwanted situationUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38885951.post-9229866140474478132009-12-10T09:51:51.497-05:002009-12-10T09:51:51.497-05:00Babies come from sex. If you TRULY never wanted a ...Babies come from sex. If you TRULY never wanted a child, you should have abstained or had surgery. <br /><br />You can only choose your actions, you can not choose the consequences. You chose to live with the "what if" when you had sex.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38885951.post-78501836785967571822009-12-10T09:49:43.207-05:002009-12-10T09:49:43.207-05:00You say this, "because of the way everyone wi...You say this, "because of the way everyone will look at me for abandoning my child".<br /><br />What about the way everyone will look at you for aborting the baby? <br /><br />At least if you choose the first option, your decision will not be irreversible. If you abort, there is no going back, no becoming a bigger person for considering someone other than yourself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38885951.post-30731974921899998512008-06-16T12:42:00.000-05:002008-06-16T12:42:00.000-05:00I am a pastor and a father of six. My wife and I b...I am a pastor and a father of six. My wife and I both come from large families. However, my family was blended and at one point very disfunctional. Two things you need to ask yourself; they are:<BR/>1. What is post-abortion life like?<BR/>2. What would you have wanted your mother to have done if she would have felt like you at the time she was carrying you?<BR/>I'll be praying for you-a hard choice.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38885951.post-69251662404177461742007-07-19T18:03:00.000-05:002007-07-19T18:03:00.000-05:00Well obviously you wanted what came before the bab...Well obviously you wanted what came before the baby barring even the minimal risk that came with it and now you are dealing with it.<BR/><BR/>A) I don't think it's fair to your baby or husband to abort <BR/><BR/>B) It is not fair to the baby to be born and its mother hate and despise it cause it was unwanted<BR/><BR/>I am on the fence on this one.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04982450303774359272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38885951.post-53435079454629200492007-05-03T11:16:00.000-05:002007-05-03T11:16:00.000-05:00Telling him you're getting an abortion to "see wha...Telling him you're getting an abortion to "see what he does" is definitely a wrong move, if you haven't actually decided to do that. First off it would be lying, and second off it would just make the situation worse.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38885951.post-82658658512035999542007-04-17T08:31:00.000-05:002007-04-17T08:31:00.000-05:00So God forced her to become pregnant against her w...So God forced her to become pregnant against her will? Yeah, that makes sense.<BR/><BR/>People get married under false pretenses all the time. Here hubby wanted a kid all along, and now that one's here he doesn't want to give it up. I'm inclined to the "tough shit" approach, but you should probably tell him you're getting an abortion and then see what he does.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00429925525372526367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38885951.post-35955453279947694622007-04-09T10:07:00.000-05:002007-04-09T10:07:00.000-05:00I think children are a blessing from God! And you ...I think children are a blessing from God! And you should seriously be praying about what He wants you to do.<BR/><BR/>-- <BR/><BR/>-- <BR/>Trust in the Lord with all your heart all your soul and all your mind.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com